So you are interested in meeting and dating sexy Colombian women?
As someone who has traveled to Colombia for many years, I can honestly say that Colombianas are the sexiest girls in all of Latin America. Not only do they have beautiful faces, curvy bodies and sweet personalities. But they also have been raised in a family focused culture. Hence divorce is far less common in Colombia compared to the west.
Sounds pretty good right?
It sure does. And by now I am guessing you’re asking yourself how you can also meet these Colombian hotties.
While you can get some decent results in the many bars and clubs around Colombia, in my opinion online dating is your best option for finding hot Colombian girls. You see, online dating is both safe and cheap, and in Colombia it has not yet been ruined like in the west, and you can still find many quality Colombian girls online.
But what if I never dated Colombian women before, or what if I am new to online dating?
Well my friend you’ve come to the right place!
You see, I clearly remember all the difficulties when I first started dating Colombian women. It took me many weeks to figure out the complex Colombian dating culture – And let me tell you that I did plenty of mistakes along the way!
And to save you a lot of work, I summarized all my experiences in this helpful guide that covers absolutely everything you need to know about meeting and dating sexy Colombian girls. First off, I’ll talk about Colombian Cupid, a site that claims to be the one of the best Colombian dating sites. Thereafter, I’ll show you how to use Colombian Cupid to meet hot Colombian girls followed by lot of information about Colombian dating customs. Finally, I give some helpful Colombian relationship tips and advice when marrying a Colombian woman.
Let’s dive right in!
My Colombian Cupid Review
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Colombian Cupid is the most popular Colombian dating site. The site has tens of thousands of single Colombian girls, all looking for foreign guys (or gringos as they call us).
Moreover, Colombian Cupid is owned by Cupid Media, a company that operates over 30 successful niche dating sites. In other words, your financial and personal data is in safe hands.
Colombian Cupid is very easy to use and the site has a slick design. On the surface it may look like any other Internet dating site, but let me tell you that looks can be deceiving. You see, when I did my Columbia Cupid “research” I estimated that at least 90% of the sexy Colombian women are there to meet a gringo guy. And with very little effort I received over 15 daily messages. And the best part is that I was able to get the hottest Colombianas out on dates!
Sounds pretty good right?
Sure, but of course there are some bad things about the site.
Which brings us to their subscription prices. You see, after you sign up, you can create a profile, search for Colombian girls and look at their profiles. But to be able to send messages you need to buy a so called premium membership.
Certainly, this is not great but let me explain why I don’t mind doing this.
All in all, the price of a premium membership is not that much more than a few drinks in a random bar. In fact, you likely spend much more money on an average night out, while having far less result to show for it.
Colombian Cupid will save you both time AND money.
In my opinion, Colombian Cupid is by far the best Colombian dating site. No other site or app comes close when it comes to the sheer amount of quality girls on the site. And most Colombia girls are not here to scam you. They are genuinely hoping to find a nice gringo boy friend – or husband!
Furthermore, you can find all sorts of girls here: Medellin women (Paisas), Bogota women (Rolas), Cali Colombia Women (Caleñas), blond Colombianas, black Costenas, Colombian teens (over 18 of course) and even some smoking hot Colombian models. I can honestly say there’s a girl for every man’s taste!
However, as the world gets smaller, I can’t guarantee that ColombianCupid will stay this great forever. Very likely it will soon be as bad as online dating is in the west- Therefore, now is the time to start looking for your Colombian dream girl!
How To Use Colombian Cupid To Meet Hot Colombian Girls
As mentioned above in my Colombian Cupid review, the site is very easy to use. However, plenty of men still end up empty handed. Most mistakes are due to cultural misunderstandings, but a lot of men also make critical mistakes when they use ColombianCupid. This could be everything from using low quality photos to sending bad opening messages.
So, to make your life easier I have written this helpful guide how to use ColombianCupid to it’s fullest potential, while also avoiding all the pitfalls. Here are just a few things I will talk about:
- How to create an account on ColombianCupid
- How to create an attractive and interesting profile
- Select photos that will make her fall in love
- Which messages have the highest response rates
- How to minimize your risks
- And much much more!
Register An Account On Colombian Cupid
If you are planning a trip to Colombia, it’s enough to signup on ColombianCupid 2 weeks before your departure. If you start messaging girls much earlier than that, you will waste a lot of time entertaining all of them. Very likely some Colombia women will lose interest and disappear. Two weeks is the sweet spot and you will have plenty of dates scheduled by the time of your arrival in Colombia.
Signing up on ColombianCupid is easy and takes less than 5 minutes. Head over to the Colombian Cupid login page and enter your e-mail or Facebook in the form on the left side. Then hit the “View Singles Now” button.
First off, you should add some more information to your profile. The more details you add, the better job Columbian Cupid will do matching you with the right Colombian women. At the very least make sure you included a short biography, your age and your location (home country or planned destination in Colombia).
Now here’s the most important part:
Your profile photo. You see, your profile photo will be the first (and usually the only thing) the Colombian girl will check out. A great looking photo could be the difference between a reply or no reply at all. I recommend to use a photo where you are wearing some good clothing, for instance a well fitted shirt or a suit.
In addition, add some more photos with you doing some interesting activities, such as sports, traveling etc. Make the photos tell a story of you. A story where you’re a successful and interesting guy!
Pro Tip: It’s actually a plus to say that you are religious. You see, most quality girls are devoted Catholics, and those girls have been raised with good family values. And that’s the kind of girl we’re looking for right?
Searching For Hot Colombian Women
The search form is where you enter your search criteria. First and foremost, I recommend to limit your searches to girls that live close to where you’ll be staying, for example within 50 kilometers of Medellin. In addition, I recommend to filter out Columbian girls who are not very active on the site. For instance, I prefer their last activity to be one month or less. Finally, if you wish to add some more search criteria, head over to the Advanced Search menu.
Another cool function is the Members Online feature where you can see all the hot Columbian women who are currently online. This is a very useful function, because you can start a chat session and interact instantly with those girls.
Finally, there’s a function called Matches where you can see the sexy Columbian women that ColumbianCupid believes will be a good match for you.
After you have submitted your search, you are presented with the result. As you can see, there are 5 different ways for you to interact with all those beautiful Columbian women: check out her profile, send her a message, show interest, add her to your favorites or start a chat session.
If I find a Columbian woman attractive and interesting, I send her an interest followed by a short message.
Pro Tip: You can save your best search queries for future use in the Advanced Search menu.
First of all, your opening message doesn’t need to be overly complicated. Just make sure it doesn’t look like a mass mail message. Which means to include her name. Just a simple tweak like that will increase your chances for a reply. The fact of the matter is, if you appear to be a normal, sane guy with a good profile photo, your chances for a reply will be as high as 70 to 80%!
Pro Tip: you can increase your chances even further by scanning her profile and come up with an interesting question or a nice compliment.
After playing around with different openers, I think simpler is better, and I usually just send this to the girls that I am interested in:
Hi [name]. I am Andy from San Francisco. How are you?
If her profile says she cant speak English, send the message in Spanish. If you don’t know Spanish, use Google Translate. After a few back and forth messages, ask for her Whatsapp, where you’ll continue the conversation with her.
Never ever discuss money. That includes questions about your salary, hinting that she needs new clothes or have a relative who need expensive medical care. If those topics come up, tread with caution. It could be a sign that she has other intentions with your relationship. The exception is taxi money for the date. If this question comes up, I just offer to order her an Uber. The Easy Taxi app works great too.
If you followed all the steps in my ColombiaCupid guide, you’ll easily have at least 10 dates scheduled before your arrival in Colombia.
Good luck with finding your Colombian beauty!
Colombian Women Dating Tips
After you exchanged a few Whatsapp messages with your Colombian chica, ask if she wants to meet up for a drink or coffee. If the answer is no, just move on. There are plenty of sexy Colombian girls on Cupid, so there’s no need to waste time on a flake.
When it comes to the first date venue, I prefer a bar, cafe or a small restaurant with reasonable prices, for example a Juan Valdez cafe (the one in Parque Lleras, Poblado is great). If you choose a bar, make sure they have Aguardiente – most Colombia women love this local drink.
But here’s the important part when dating a Colombian girl: Do not allow her to change the venue after it’s been decided! And do not allow her to bring a friend or family member. By following those two simple rules, 90% of all the gold diggers will be filtered out.
In addition, be aware that Colombia girls can be a bit flaky and some may not even show up. Therefore, if you value your time, schedule dates with more than one girl and space them out a couple of hours apart. With your top priority Colombian girl first. If the girl shows up as planned, cancel the other dates. This is especially important for Medellin. Paisa girls are known to be very flaky!
In Medellin (but also in other places) it’s very important to not look like yet another sex tourist. You see, for the last 10 years, your Medellin girl has seen hundreds of gringos travelling to her city to meet escorts and prostitutes (Prepagos). Instead, dress well (no shorts and flip flops!), be well groomed and treat your Paisa girl with respect.
Pro Tip: Take her to a salsa club! You see, Columbian women loves to dance and this is a great way to connect more closely with her. But what if I don’t know how to dance salsa? Don’t worry. Just keep her close and follow the rhythm as best as you can. Gringos are not expected to be expert dancers, just make sure to smile and show off a fun personality. In addition, if you happen to be in Colombia for a longer period of time, I recommend to take a salsa class. They are very affordable and you’ll be a floor master in no time!
Colombian Girl Relationship Tips
Like in any country with a “macho culture”, your Colombian girlfriend will be naturally feminine. In addition to that, she will expect you to be masculine and be the leader in the relationship. Of course this does not mean you should go “alpha asshole” on her. You see, she will listen to her boyfriend/husband, serve him and accept the fact that he’s the head of the family. However, this is not a guarantee that you can do anything you please in your relationship – in particular when it comes to being unfaithful.
And this brings us to the next topic:
Colombian women are very jealous! The worst example is one of my gringo friends. This poor guy need to take a photo whenever he’s out with the boys. Why? So she can be sure he’s not seeing other Colombian chicks!
For the love of god, don’t be that guy!
Not only will she lose all respect for you, this is also not the way for a man to live his life.
The best recipe is to “man up” and firmly but calmly make clear that you don’t accept this kind of behavior. Do not let her control you! And always be ready to step away if things turn sour. No woman is worth this kind of drama.
Finally, if she wants to introduce you to her family, you can assume she’s serious with you. When you are marrying a Colombian woman, you also marry her family. You see, it will be harder to take the relationship to the next level unless her grandmom approves of you. In worst case they will think you’re “just another tourist”.
Marrying A Colombian Woman
Unfortunately I can’t claim to be an expert on this topic since I never married a hot Colombian girl. But, I heard a thing or two from friends that tied the knot in Colombia.
First off, you need to know your Columbian girl really well before you ask to marry her. As mentioned above, many Colombian girls are very jealous, and while you can improve most relationships by “man up” and set boundaries, with some girls this is just not possible. And those Colombia women will make your life a living hell.
So again, don’t marry her until you know her true colors. The silver lining is that most “bad girls” won’t be able to put up a fake facade 100% of the time, and at some point her true personality will shine through.
In addition, if you plan to live with her in your home country, it’s even more important to get to know your future Colombian wife. You see, I heard so many stories of girls that completely change their personality after they moved to the grooms home country. A divorce is usually followed soon thereafter.
Don’t be that guy!
Other Questions About Meeting & Dating Colombian Girls
Do I need to verify my Columbian Cupid profile? Not necessarily. But if you do, a “trust badge” will show up on your profile, hence more sexy Colombian women may reply to your messages.
What if I live abroad and have no plans to visit Colombia? I would still try Colombia Cupid. Many hot Colombian women want to meet men that lives in western countries, and a majority of them are even willing to relocate. You can filter out the beautiful Colombian women that are willing to relocate in the Advanced Search form.
Hey Andy, I don’t want to pay a dime to meet my Colombian ladies. Is there an app where I can meet Colombian singles that are 100% free? Well you also have Tinder, which is a decent Colombian dating apps. But from my own experience, there are a lot less Colombian hotties on tinder in Colombia compared to Cupid. Moreover, to get the most out of the Tinder in Colombia app you need to buy their premium subscription anyway.
Did you like reading my guide about meet hot Colombian women, dating hot Colombian babes and my Colombian Cupid reviews, you can also check out my other guides on Dominican women, Brazilian women, Mexican women and Peruvian women, as well another piece on Medellin.
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