So you want to meet a Vietnamese girl for a serious relationship, or perhaps marriage?
Congratulations! Vietnamese girls are ideal for both marriage and long term relationships. They are beautiful, loyal and most of them will have a slim, yet curvy body. In addition, and perhaps most importantly, Vietnam has an extremely low divorce rate (4%) which will minimize the risk for an emotionally and financially draining divorce.
But where can you find those exotic beauties?
That’s a very good question, and if you never lived in Vietnam, it will be a difficult one to answer. But the good news is that I can help you. I have lived in Vietnam for many years and I know the best places to find “real” Vietnamese girls, not any of the entitled Viet kieu girls, or worse, a gold digger that will take you to the cleaners!
Furthermore, to be able to help as many guys as possible I have tailored my guide to fit many angles and pockets:
- This guide is suitable for men who are already in Vietnam, whether on vacation or living as expats
- In addition, it’s suitable for men who are planning to visit or move to Vietnam in the near future
- And finally, for guys who has no desire to travel to Vietnam, but still want to meet a Vietnamese girl
But let’s start with describing the personality of the typical Vietnamese girls.
The Personality Of Vietnamese Girls
With Vietnam, it’s essential to understand that most people in their 20s experienced severe poverty in their childhood. Instead of playing with expensive toys, they had to worry about where their next meal would come from. Of course it’s different today, and now people can afford the same kind of luxury items we have in the west. But people who experienced real poverty are far more appreciative for the smaller things in life, more humble and way less entitled compared to people in the west.
And that’s the type of girls you’ll find in Vietnam. In addition to the above, Vietnamese girls are beautiful, slim, well educated, have good family values and loyal. In addition, the divorce rate in Vietnam is insanely low (4%) making them an ideal life partner.
Where To Find Vietnamese Girls
Now when we know a bit about the personalities of Vietnamese girls, let’s move onto the actual guide. And let’s start with the night clubs.
Night clubs are one of the more common ways to meet girls in the west. Though this is still possible in Vietnam, I wouldn’t say that the girls you’ll meet at the clubs will be “real” traditional Vietnamese girls. Most girls you’ll encounter at the clubs will be fairly westernized and have more in common with the girl down the street back home, than the traditional, exotic beauty that you came here to find.
In fact, a “real” Vietnamese girl will have a 11pm curfew, thus night clubs will not be an option for her. In addition, the typical Vietnamese girl don’t drink a lot of alcohol, and most traditional girls have never visited a nightclub.
But if you want to give clubbing a try in Saigon, I recommend to visit one of the high end places such as Levels, Qui, Xu Bar and Xoxo. Though it’s possible to meet girls at places such as Apocalypse Now or at Bui Vien, I wouldn’t consider those girls relationship material.
In case you didn’t know, day game is when you approach a cute girl on the street. You’ll have a short conversation, build some attraction, and hopefully you’ll get her number.
Day game can be very successful, especially in cities where people walk around a lot during the day. I know many successful day gamers in Ukraine and Colombia. But day gaming can be challenging in Vietnam:
- Vietnamese girls don’t like to be exposed to sunlight (they prefer white skin), thus many won’t walk outside during the day.
- Most cities in Vietnam are not built for walking, and instead most girls will drive around with their motorbikes.
- When Vietnamese girls actually walk outside, most will be with families or in a group of friends.
- Most Vietnamese girls won’t be comfortable with English, making the conversation challenging.
I am not saying it’s impossible, I am merely pointing out it’ll be more challenging and time consuming than other places.
If you do want to give day game a try, I recommend focusing on the big malls (Saigon Centre, Vincom) or a university campus, for example HUFLIT.
Meeting Vietnamese girls through mutual friends is one of your the best options. You’ll know that the girl has been vetted by your social circle thus minimizing the risk for any future drama.
The major disadvantage with social circle game is the time it’ll take to build up a large enough social circle, especially if you just arrived in a new country. The social circle option will only work for guys that are going to live in Vietnam for a considerable amount of time.
The most convenient way to meet Vietnamese girls is with an online dating service. You can sit in the comfort of your own home and talk to hundreds of beautiful girls. The major advantage with online dating is that you don’t need to be in Vietnam. You can talk to the girls before your trip, or even invite her to your home country in case you don’t want to travel yourself.
But a word of caution. Some girls have made a “career” out of meeting foreigners online, and I wouldn’t consider those girls for serious relationships. In particular the Tinder app has a lot of those “bad” girls and gold diggers, and some friends have even stopped using Tinder for those exact reasons.
A far better place to meet Vietnamese girls is with Vietnam Cupid, and that’s where I found my current girlfriend. The major difference compared to Tinder is that Vietnam Cupid has far more traditional, normal girls who are genuinely serious with finding a relationship. In particular with a foreign guy.
Did you like reading my article about where to find Vietnamese girls for marriage or long term relationship, you can also check out my other guides on Filipino women, Indonesian girls and Thai girls, as well another piece on Vietnamese cities.
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