If you ever used online dating in United States or Europe, VietnamCupid will be a pleasant surprise. All the girls who are using the site are looking to meet a white guy, and you will receive at least 5 messages per day from hot Vietnamese women. No matter if your goal is to get laid on your vacation, or finding a long term partner, VietnamCupid will have plenty of girls to choose from!
But despite the easiness there are plenty of pitfalls. Many mistakes are due to cultural differences but a lot of men make critical mistakes when they use VietnamCupid. For example using a subpar profile photo or sending wrong opening messages.
Therefore I have created this helpful guide how to use Vietnam Cupid to it’s fullest potential, while avoiding all the pitfalls. In my guide I will teach you the following:
- How to register an account on Vietnam Cupid
- Create an attractive and interesting profile
- Choose photos that will make her fall in love
- What messages have high response rates
- How to minimize the risks
- And much more!
Are you ready to meet your Vietnamese beauty? Let’s dive right in!
How to Find Hot Vietnamese Women On VietnamCupid
Registration for Vietnam Cupid is very easy and straightforward. On their frontpage, you’ll find the registration form on the left side. Just fill in your first name, gender, age, e-mail, password, or use your Facebook account. Then hit the “View Singles Now” button.
Now you’re ready to start talking to thousands of hot Vietnamese women!
First, I recommend to fill out your profile with some more information. Try to add as much details as possible – that’ll help Vietnam Cupid match you with the girls. At the very least, make sure to have a short description, your age and location.
Your profile photo is the most important part of your VietnamCupid profile. It’ll be the first thing (and sometimes the only thing) the Vietnamese girl will look at. A great photo could be the difference between a reply or no reply at all. Choose a profile photo where you wear some good clothes, for example a shirt or a suit.
In addition, add a few more other photos where you’re doing something interesting, for example sports, traveling etc. Make the photos tell a story of you. A story where you’re a successful, interesting guy!
Use the search form to enter your search criteria. I recommend to use the filter to limit your searches to girls living close to where you’re staying, for example within 50 kilometers. In addition, filter out girls who’re not very active on the site. I prefer their last activity to be 1 month or better. Finally, if you wish to add more criteria, click on Advanced Search. Here you can also save your search queries for future use.
Another handy feature is Members Online, where you’ll see the girls who are currently online. I find this very useful, because you can launch a chat session with those girls, making the interaction instant.
In addition, there’s a feature called Matches where you’ll see the girls that Vietnam Cupid believes will be a good match for you.
After you have submitted your search, you’re presented with a result. As you can see, there are 5 different options for interacting with the girls: check out her profile, send her a message, show interest, add her to your favorites or start a chat session.
If I find a girl attractive and interesting, I first send her an interest notice, followed by a short message.
To send messages you’ll need to upgrade to a premium account, which in my opinion is totally worth it. A premium subscription cost about the same as a few drinks in a random bar, and considering the staggering amount of girls you’ll get access to plus the convenience, it’s a no-brainer.
First and foremost, your first message doesn’t need to be overly complicated. Just make sure it doesn’t look like a mass mail message. Read her profile and come up with a good question or a compliment, and make sure to include her name. If you appear to be a normal, sane guy, plus have a good profile photo, your chances for a reply will be 80 to 90%.
I usually just write: Hi [name]. I am Andy from San Francisco. How are you?
Keep in mind that it’s different to talk with Vietnamese women compared to a western girl. Popular western “game theories” won’t yield good results here, for instance negging, being cocky, dark triad etc. Those things will make you appear strange and arrogant, and may scare away the good Vietnamese women. Instead just appear like a normal guy. She on the other hand will look for signs that you’ll be a good family man, and she may ask questions about your family, how long you are visiting Vietnam etc.
Never ever discuss money. That includes questions about your salary, hinting that she needs new clothes or have a relative who need expensive medical care. If those topics come up, tread with caution. It could be a sign that she has other intentions with your relationship.
When you exchanged a few messages, suggest to meet for a cup of coffee after you have arrived. If the answer is no, just move on. There are many Vietnamese women on Vietnamcupid, so no need to get attached to a time waster.
If you follow all the steps in my guide, you should easily have at least 5 dates scheduled before your arrival.
Do I need to verify my VietnamCupid profile? Not necessarily. But if you do, a “trust badge” will show up on your profile, hence more girls may reply to your messages.
What if I live abroad and have no plans to visit Vietnam? I would still give Vietnam Cupid a go. Many Vietnamese women are open to meet men living in other countries, and some are even willing to relocate. You can filter the girls that are willing to relocate in the Advanced Search form.
Did you like this handy guide about finding hot Vietnamese women on Vietnamcupid review, you can also check out my other guides on Filipino women, Indonesian girls and Thai girls, as well another piece on Da Nang.
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