Vietnamcupid is the best place to find hot Vietnamese women. It’s Vietnam’s biggest dating site with thousands of attractive girls, and you can sit in the comfort of your own home and talk with all of them. No matter if your goal is to get laid on your vacation, or finding a long term partner, Vietnamcupid will have a girl for you!
But be aware there are many pitfalls with using Vietnamcupid. Especially if you have no experience with Vietnamese women or their culture. Many men have returned home empty handed or fallen in love with the wrong girl, resulting in a relationship ending in emotional and financial disaster.
But the good news is that I can help you. I have been living in Vietnam for many years, and I know how to navigate the local dating market. In addition, I have met many hot Vietnamese women from Vietnam Cupid, including my current girlfriend. Hence I have decided to write a guide how to use Vietnam Cupid to it’s fullest potential, while also avoiding all the pitfalls.
Let’s dive right in!
How to Find Hot Vietnamese Women On Vietnamcupid
Using Vietnamcupid is far different from online dating in the west. Any girl who is using this site want to meet a western guy, and after registering you’ll receive at least 5 messages per day from hot Vietnamese women. Therefore I think it’s enough to register on Vietnamcupid a couple of weeks before your trip. That should be enough time to have several dates lined up at the time of your arrival in Vietnam.
Registration for Vietnam Cupid is very easy and straightforward. On their frontpage, you’ll find the registration form on the left side. Just fill in your first name, gender, age, e-mail and password. Then hit the “View Singles Now” button.
Now you’re ready to start talking to thousands of hot Vietnamese women!
First, I recommend to fill out your profile with some information. Try to add as much details as possible – that’ll help Vietnam Cupid match you with the girls. At the very least, make sure to have a short description, your age and location.
Your profile photo is the most important part of your profile. It’ll be the first thing (and sometimes the only thing) the girl will look at. A great photo could be the difference between a reply or no reply at all. Choose a profile photo where you wear some good clothes, for example a shirt or a suit.
In addition, add a few more other photos where you’re doing something interesting, for example sports, traveling etc. Make the photos tell a story of you. A story where you’re a successful, interesting guy!
Use the search form to enter your search criteria. I recommend to use the filter to limit your searches to girls living close to where you’re staying, for example within 50 kilometers. In addition, filter out girls who’re not very active on the site. I prefer their last activity to be 1 month or better. Finally, if you wish to add more criteria, click on Advanced Search. Here you can also save your search queries for future use.
Another handy feature is Members Online, where you’ll see the girls who are currently online. I find this very useful, because you can launch a chat session with those girls, making the interaction instant.
In addition, there’s a feature called Matches where you’ll see the girls that Vietnam Cupid believes will be a good match for you.
After you have submitted your search, you’re presented with a result. As you can see, there are 5 different options for interacting with the girls: check out her profile, send her a message, show interest, add her to your favorites or start a chat session.
If I find a girl attractive and interesting, I first send her an interest notice, followed by a short message.
To send messages you’ll need to upgrade to a premium account, which in my opinion is totally worth it. A premium subscription cost about the same as a few drinks in a random bar, and considering the staggering amount of girls you’ll get access to, plus the convenience, it’s a no-brainer.
First and foremost, your first message doesn’t need to be overly complicated. Just make sure it doesn’t look like a mass mail message. Read her profile and come up with a good question or a compliment, and make sure to include her name. If you appear to be a normal, sane guy, plus have a good profile photo, your chances for a reply will be 80 to 90%.
I usually just write: Hi [name]. I am Andy from San Francisco. How are you?
Keep in mind that it’s different to talk with a Vietnamese girl compared to a western girl. Popular western “game theories” won’t yield good results here, for instance negging, being cocky, dark triad etc. Those things will make you appear strange and arrogant, and may scare away the good Vietnamese women. Instead just appear like a normal guy. She on the other hand will look for signs that you’ll be a good family man, and she may ask questions about your family, how long you are visiting Vietnam etc.
Never ever discuss money. That includes questions about your salary, hinting that she needs new clothes or have a relative who need expensive medical care. If those topics come up, tread with caution. It could be a sign that she has other intentions with your relationship.
When you exchanged a few messages, suggest to meet for a cup of coffee after you have arrived. If the answer is no, just move on. There are many girls on Vietnamcupid, so no need to get attached to a time waster.
If you follow all the steps in my guide, you should easily have at least 5 dates scheduled before your arrival.
Do I need to verify my profile? Not necessarily. But if you do, a “trust badge” will show up on your profile, hence more girls may reply to your messages.
What if I live abroad and have no plans to visit Vietnam? I would still give Vietnam Cupid a go. Some girls are open to meet men living in other countries, and some are even willing to relocate. You can even filter the girls that are willing to relocate in the Advanced Search form.
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