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If you ever used online dating in the west, you are probably pretty tired by now. Tired of flakes, entitled drama queens and boring Starbucks dates. And don’t get me started on “model photos” that look far from reality.
But what options does a man have in today’s confusing dating market?
He should look elsewhere of course!
Let me explain.
The last 3 summers I have based myself in Kiev, the picturesque capital of Ukraine. Kiev is one of the most beautiful cities in Eastern Europe with golden onion dome skylines and wide avenues lined with cozy cafes.
And Ukrainian girls just happens to be the most beautiful girls on the planet!
Not only are they tall, slender with long blond hair. But their personality is very sweet and family oriented. And divorce is far less common here compared to the west.
Sounds pretty good right?
It sure does. And by now you probably asking yourself how you can also meet these Slavic beauties.
In my opinion, the Internet is by far the best place. In Ukraine, online dating has not yet been ruined like back in the west, and you can still find quality girls online. Additionally, not only will online dating save you time and money, but you can sit in the comfort of your own home talking with some very beautiful Ukrainian women!
And you don’t even have to be in Ukraine!
For this very reason I have created a handy guide that covers everything there’s to know about meeting and dating sexy Ukrainian women. First, let’s have a look at UkraineDate, a site that claims to be one of the best Ukraine dating sites. Next I talk about the best strategy to meet Ukrainian girls with UkraineDate and then we finish off talking about Ukrainian dating culture.
Let’s dive right in!
My UkraineDate Review
UkraineDate is Ukrainia’s largest dating site with thousands of beautiful and single girls. It’s owned by the well-established Cupid Media network that operates over 30 popular niche dating sites. This means your payment and personal information is in safe hands.
At first glance Ukraine Date looks like any other traditional dating site. There’s a search function that display the girls in a grid format and you have many different ways to interact with them, for example massages and chat. Most of the girls have photos.
But the similarities end there. From my own “research”, 95% of the girls who are using UkraineDate are looking to meet a foreign man. Without much effort on my part, I received more than 10 messages per day from hot Ukrainian women. And most girls are quite serious, and I was able to got most of them out on a date.
I think it’s fair to say that on UkraineDate the girls are chasing after the men. The very opposite of dating back in the west!
Of course the site is not perfect. The one negative thing with Ukraine Date is their pricing model. You can sign up for free which allows you to create a profile, submit searches and look at girl’s profiles. But to send messages you have to buy a premium membership.
Yeah it sucks but in my opinion it’s well worth the money. The price of a premium membership is the same as a few drinks in a random bar, and it’s money well spent considering the staggering amount of beautiful Ukrainian women you get access to.
In the end UkraineDate could actually end up saving you both time AND money.
In my opinion, there’s no better place to meet hot Ukrainian women than with Ukraine Date. There are no hidden costs like with many other online dating sites, and once you have the premium membership you can use all the features (including the translation service) for free.
However, since the world is becoming more global and intertwined with each passing year, there’s no guarantee that Ukraine Date will stay this good forever. Very likely it will soon be as bad as online dating is in the west – so now is the right time to start looking for your Ukrainian dream girl!
How To Use UkraineDate To Meet Hot Ukrainian Girls
Despite that the site is easy to use, there are plenty of pitfalls. Some mistakes are due to cultural differences but a lot of guys also make critical mistakes when they use Ukraine Date. For instance, uploading low quality photos or sending bad opening messages that will yield zero responses.
But no sweat. To make your life easier I have written this helpful guide how to use Ukraine Date to it’s fullest potential, while also avoiding all the pitfalls. In my guide I will show you the following:
- How to register an account on Ukraine Date
- Create an attractive and interesting profile
- Choose photos that will make her fall in love
- What messages have high response rates
- How to minimize the risks
- And much more!
Register An Account On UkraineDate
First and foremost, if you plan to travel to Ukraine, it’s enough to register on UkraineDate about 2 weeks before your arrival in Ukraine. If you start messaging Ukrainian women too early, you will end up spending a lot of time entertaining them. It’s all but certain that some will lose interest and disappear. In my opinion, two weeks is the sweet spot and you will have plenty of hotties lined up at the time of your arrival – while also saving precious time.
Joining UkraineDate is easy and done in minutes. Go to their frontpage and enter your e-mail or Facebook in the registration form on the left side. Then hit the “View Singles Now” button.
Now you are ready to start talking to thousands of hot Ukrainian girls!
First, I recommend to add a bit more information to your profile. The more details you add, the better job Ukraine Date will do matching you with the right Ukraine women. At the very least make sure you have included a short bio, your age and your location.
Your profile photo is the most important part of your profile. It’ll be the first thing (and sometimes the only thing) the Ukrainian girl will look at. A great photo could be the difference between a reply or no reply at all. Choose a profile photo where you are wearing some good clothing, for example a shirt or a suit.
In addition, add a few more photos with you doing something interesting, for example sports, traveling etc. Make the photos tell a story of you. A story where you’re a successful and interesting guy!
Searching For The Girls
The search form is where you enter your search criteria. I recommend to limit your searches to girls that live close to where you’ll be staying, for example within 50 kilometers of Kiev. In addition, filter out the Ukraine girls who are not very active on the site. I prefer their last activity to be 1 month or earlier. Finally, if you wish to add more criteria, click on Advanced Search. Here you can also save your search queries for future use.
Another handy feature is Members Online where you can see all the hot Ukrainian girls who are currently online. I find this very useful, because you can launch a chat session and start interacting instantly with those girls.
In addition, there’s a feature called Matches where you can see all the hot Ukrainian women that Ukraine Cupid believes will be a good match for you.
After you have submitted your search, you are presented with the result. As you can see, there are 5 different options for interacting with the Ukraine girls: check out her profile, send her a message, show interest, add her to your favorites or start a chat session.
If I find the Ukrainian girl attractive and interesting, I send her an interest followed by a short message.
First and foremost, your first message doesn’t need to be overly complicated. Just make sure it doesn’t look like a mass mail message. That means to include her name. Just a simple tweak like that will increase your chances for a response. In addition, you can increase the chances even further by scanning the girl’s profile and come up with a good question or a compliment. The bottom line is, if you appear to be a normal, sane guy with a good profile photo, your chances for a reply will be as high as 80 to 90%!
From my experience I think simpler is better, and I usually just write this to a hot Ukraine girl that I am attracted to:
Hi [name]. I am Andy from San Francisco. How are you?
Be aware that many Ukraine women don’t speak English very well. You can check out their profile to see which one does and doesn’t. If she doesn’t speak any English and you don’t speak Russian or Ukrainian, I recommend using Google Translate. It has worked great for me, even during the actual date.
After you exchanged a few messages, ask for her Whatsapp or Viber number and move the conversation there.
Never ever discuss money. That includes questions about your salary, hinting that she needs new clothes or have a relative who need expensive medical care. If those topics come up, tread with caution. It could be a sign that she has other intentions with your relationship. The exception is taxi money for the date. If this question comes up I just offer to order her an Uber.
Ukrainian Dating Culture
After you exchanged a few messages on Whatsapp or Viber, suggest to meet up for a drink or coffee after you arrived. If the answer is no, just move on. There are plenty of hot Ukrainian girls on Ukraine Cupid, so no need to get attached to a time waster.
First and foremost, be aware that the gold digger mentality is alive and well in Ukraine. Unfortunately, a few of the Ukraine girls will try to get a free dinner out of you, while offering nothing in return. For this very reason I prefer to be in control of the dating venue. I usually choose a bar or cafe close to my apartment with reasonable drink prices and limited food selection. If she at any point tries to change the meeting venue, politely say no. This simple, yet effective strategy will weed out 90% of all gold diggers.
In addition, be vary of Ukraine girls that insists on bringing along a friend, or worse, showing up with one unannounced. Politely say that you want to get to know her alone first. If she still insists, cancel the date and move on.
Finally, here are some other useful things that are good to know about Ukrainian dating culture:
- Sometimes it feels like 90% of Ukrainian girls follows the same set of rules. The most obvious is she likely won’t come back to your place until after the third date. If you push her too much, some girls will just disappear. Of course there are exceptions, and some girls will willingly come back after just one date. But that itself is a “red flag” if you are looking for a serious relationship.
- During the date she will likely bombard you with questions, for example “What are you doing in Ukraine?” and “How long are you here for?”. This is perfectly normal, just make sure you have your story straight. And try to be honest. The Ukrainian girls are very smart and most of them will see through your bullshit very easily!
- Like in any conservative country she will expect you to lead. Masculinity is a trait a hot Ukrainian girl will look for in her suitors. Of course this doesn’t mean you should go “alpha asshole” on her. It’s more along the lines that you shouldn’t let her change the dating venue (like I mentioned above), try to listen to her opinions but make the final decision, and firmly but politely push back if she do something you disapprove of (for example if she orders a lot of food but leaves most of it untouched).
If you followed all the steps in my guide, you will easily have at least 10 dates scheduled before your arrival in Ukraine.
Do I need to verify my UkraineCupid profile? Not necessarily. But if you do, a “trust badge” will show up on your profile, hence more sexy Ukrainian girls may reply to your messages.
What if I live abroad and have no plans to visit the Ukraine? I would still try Ukraine Cupid. Many Ukrainian girls want to meet men that lives in western countries, and a majority are even willing to relocate. You can filter out the hot Ukraine women who are willing to relocate in the Advanced Search form.
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