If you ever used online dating in United States or Europe, Colombian Cupid will be a pleasant surprise. All the girls who are using the site are looking to meet a foreign guy, and you’ll receive at least 5 messages per day from hot Columbian women. No matter if your goal is to get laid on your vacation, or finding a long term partner, Colombian Cupid will have plenty of Columbian women to choose from!
But despite the easiness there are plenty of pitfalls. Many mistakes are due to cultural differences but a lot of men make critical mistakes when they use the site. For example using a subpar profile photo or sending wrong opening messages.
Therefore I have created this helpful guide how to use ColombianCupid to it’s fullest potential, while avoiding all the pitfalls. In my guide I will show you the following:
- How to register an account on ColombianCupid
- Create an attractive and interesting profile
- Choose photos that will make her fall in love
- What messages have high response rates
- How to setup dates (taxi money, venues etc)
- How to minimize the risks
- And much more!
Are you ready to meet your Columbian girl? Let’s dive right in!
How to Find Hot Columbian Women On Colombian Cupid (ColombianCupid Review)
First and foremost, I recommend that you sign up about 2 weeks before your arrival in Colombia. If you start message girls much earlier than that, you’ll need to spend a lot of time entertaining them. The risk is that some of the Columbian girls will lose interest and disappear. Two weeks is optimum and gives you plenty of time to have several hotties lined up at the time of your arrival, while also saving time.
Joining ColombianCupid is easy and can be done in minutes. Browse to their frontpage and enter either your e-mail address or Facebook in the registration form on the left side. Then hit the “View Singles Now” button.
Now you’re ready to start talking to thousands of hot Columbian women!
First, I recommend to add a bit more information to your profile. The more details you add, the better job ColombianCupid will do matching you with the right girls. At the very least make sure you have included a short description, your age and location.
Your profile photo is the most important part of your profile. It’ll be the first thing (and sometimes the only thing) the Columbian girl will look at. A great photo could be the difference between a reply or no reply at all. Choose a profile photo where you wear some good clothing, for example a shirt or a suit.
In addition, add a few more photos where you’re doing something interesting, for example sports, traveling etc. Make the photos tell a story of you. A story where you’re a successful and interesting guy!
The search form is where you enter your search criteria. I recommend to limit your searches to Columbian women living close to where you are staying, for example within 50 kilometers of Medellin. In addition, filter out the Columbian girls who are not very active on the site. I prefer their last activity to be 1 month or better. Finally, if you wish to add more criteria, click on Advanced Search. Here you can also save your search queries for future use.
Another handy feature is Members Online where you can see all the Columbian girls who are currently online. I find this very useful, because you can launch a chat session with those girls, making the interaction instant.
In addition, there’s a feature called Matches where you can see all the Columbian girls that ColombianCupid believes will be a good match for you.
After you have submitted your search, you are presented with the result. As you can see, there are 5 different options for interacting with a Columbian girl: check out her profile, send her a message, show interest, add her to your favorites or start a chat session.
If I find the Columbian girl attractive and interesting, I send her an interest followed by a short message.
To be able to send messages to all the Columbian women you need to upgrade your account. In my opinion it’s well worth the money. A premium subscription cost the same as a few drinks in a random bar, and it’s money well spent considering the staggering amount of hot Columbian women you get access to.
First and foremost, your first message doesn’t need to be overly complicated. Just make sure it doesn’t look like a mass mail message. That means to include her name. In addition, you can increase the chances for a reply by scanning her profile and come up with a good question or a compliment, but it’s not necessary. The bottom line is, if you appear to be a normal, sane guy with a good profile photo, your chances for a reply will be as high as 70 to 80%.
I usually just write: Hi [name]. I am Andy from San Francisco. How are you?
If her profile says she cant speak English, send the message in Spanish. If you don’t know Spanish, use Google Translate. After a few back and forth messages, ask for her Whatsapp, where you’ll continue the conversation with her.
Never ever discuss money. That includes questions about your salary, hinting that she needs new clothes or have a relative who need expensive medical care. If those topics come up, tread with caution. It could be a sign that she has other intentions with your relationship. The exception is taxi money for the date. If this question comes up I just offer to order her an Uber.
When you exchanged a few messages on Whatsapp, suggest to meet for a drink after you arrived. If the answer is no, just move on. There are many other hot Columbian women on Colombian Cupid, so no need to get attached to a time waster.
Do be aware that Columbian girls can be a bit flaky and some may not even show up. Therefore, schedule more than one date and space them out a couple of hours apart, with your top priority Columbian girl first. If the first girl shows up as planned, cancel the other dates.
In addition, I prefer to be in control of the dating venue. I usually select a bar close to my place with good drinks but a limited food selection. That will weed out the Columbian girls who just want to meet me for a free dinner.
If you followed all the steps in my guide, you will have at least 5 dates scheduled before your arrival.
Do I need to verify my Colombian Cupid profile? Not necessarily. But if you do, a “trust badge” will show up on your profile, hence more Columbian women may reply to your messages.
What if I live abroad and have no plans to visit Colombia? I would still try ColombianCupid. Many Columbian women want to meet men living in western countries, and a majority are willing to relocate. You can filter out the Columbian girls who are willing to relocate in the Advanced Search form.
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